Raising a child with a mind of his own is a wonderful thing - independent thought and expression is all I ever wanted... in a world where social and peer pressure dominates thought and expression.
Seeing him ask questions was rewarding.. seeing him logically remove our pre-conceived notions about the way 'it should be' was another.
The pillars of what we think is 'the way its done' is steadily questioned as he asks 'why should I stay awake in the and sleep at night...?' Umm.. because there is no sun at night?
More than anything: 'mommy - every time you pick me up just before 4 pm. Is it because you know I dont want you to pick me up late?'
OR
'Hey you are interrupting me - that not fair!'
All of these are not negligible questions that can be brushed aside.. because.. they are not illegitimate.
However being open to this new thought means letting go the idea that my word goes all the time and he has no or little say seeing as he's little.
It means accepting that all things are a matter of choice or perception.
Jeez.
Seeing him ask questions was rewarding.. seeing him logically remove our pre-conceived notions about the way 'it should be' was another.
The pillars of what we think is 'the way its done' is steadily questioned as he asks 'why should I stay awake in the and sleep at night...?' Umm.. because there is no sun at night?
More than anything: 'mommy - every time you pick me up just before 4 pm. Is it because you know I dont want you to pick me up late?'
OR
'Hey you are interrupting me - that not fair!'
All of these are not negligible questions that can be brushed aside.. because.. they are not illegitimate.
However being open to this new thought means letting go the idea that my word goes all the time and he has no or little say seeing as he's little.
It means accepting that all things are a matter of choice or perception.
Jeez.
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